完美的一天


🎼我要一所大房子 有很大的落地窗戶
      陽光灑在地板上 也溫暖了我的被子

这是孙燕姿的一首歌,《完美的一天》。
我完美的一天不是拥有什么大房子,也不需要去买些什么来让自己快乐。

早晨起来吃了轻便的早点,跟老友晨跑🏃去了。地点是在一座茂密树林里的公园。森林里边铺好了人行步道好让人能散散步、跑步等。把车停在没定格,路旁的树荫下,我们便开始了所谓约好的晨跑。那时是早上九点钟,看似算晚了,但公园那儿还有叔叔阿姨还在走。茂密的树林将一半以上的阳光给遮住了,所以步道行走时算不热。还真的是因为置身在古晋这家乡,居住在这里的居民超有公德心的。举例一,走在一位叔叔后面的我看着他边走边将步道的树枝往路旁丢以避免其他人跑步时被绊倒。举例二,由于有工作人员在某处整理不规律的树枝,另一个经过我们的大叔叫我们别往前行,在修树枝,还带我们走另一个步道。这么热情的长辈们在我家乡遇到最多了。

跑步完了,我去了我朋友说的“洗脸”产品试用活动。那产品我两年前有用过。六个基础配套的保养品我有用过,但对于我的皮肤来说有点儿油,毕竟我的肤质是油性肌肤。而他们家的产品至今我还在用的是他们的牙刷和牙膏。产品牌子相信大家也非常熟悉,Atomy。只不过正式迎进古晋比较慢些,现在已经有自己的代理公司了。Brunch 去了 ICOM Square那儿解决。中午了,上班族几乎都现身在这人吃午餐。我点了好久没吃的砂拉越辣沙。由于是朋友(Lee woon)的生日,我们也约了另一个在附近上班的老友(Abigail)让她买片蛋糕来庆祝。在咖啡店庆祝生日就只有一个词可形容 --- 热闹。

                                                                            生日快乐咯
还是喜欢砂拉越的辣沙

下午我跟另一帮朋友出去聚聚。在新加坡上班的她(秉珍)刚好拿了假期回来家乡,约上来我及一个没上完心理学家课,小我五岁的摩羯座朋友(Michelle)。我们这组合看起来好像怎么样都搭不上(不论外貌,年龄,谈吐方式)结果因为宗教共鸣也不懂怎么的就搭上来了。哈哈哈。难的她找我出来,Michelle也提议说去市区那历史建筑物Old Court House里的咖啡厅尝尝他们家的蛋糕,名为 Kopi C Cafe。 那里的蛋糕真的是极其的好吃,口感就像英格兰或苏格兰或意大利那儿传统/经典式的蛋糕。在马来西亚吃了那么多家的蛋糕,这是我生平第一次觉得吃过史上就好吃的经典西式蛋糕(不跟日本的起司蛋糕比较,因为这是两个完全不一样的蛋糕类型)。如果你是喜欢西式蛋糕的人,我强力推荐。品尝了浓口味的蛋糕再配上一壶不管什么口味的茶,这可是多么完美的下午茶呀!真希望与朋友在这么享受的聚会里永不结束。

当然了,时间是理智的。也因为如此,我们才能随着它继续生活着,尽管我们多么希望那珍贵的时光不会逝去。黄昏时刻,我们来到了附近的独立广场Padang Merdeka。或许是我幸运吧,百年难得一见,自从东马独立以来就生长在此地的老树是棵棉花树。树枝开满了棉花,待风一吹,将附近的周围整得像下起棉棉之雪的场景,漂亮极了。在黄昏时刻带着相机在那儿拍了很多与朋友聚在一起难得的回忆。

这一整天下来,对于我来说的确是一个完美的一天。
Old Court House 那里的小花园及喷泉⛲️,完完全全是英国庭院的感觉 
任选要吃的蛋糕🍰,蛋糕的种类有十种以上。个个都好吃哦!
里面的装潢还蛮俗气的。
蛋糕要配上一壶茶
真的很好吃
三人行的自拍🤳
对面坐着老外。
最近很多老外来参加刚刚举办的世界热带雨林音乐会
 独立广场看棉花盛开的人潮
雨过天晴的天空
在捡地上的棉花
满地的棉花团
在有阳光☀️的地方拍照是最漂亮的了
三人游的合照
大家留下的美好回忆。
一切都完结得太完美。
最喜欢这张路人随意按下快门而我们都在爆笑的照片。


毕业了,大学的朋友们也都踏上了各自的旅程。
以前热热闹闹租的房子,现在也变得空空荡荡。
剩下了我的东西,不见了朋友们的作息声。
终于可以赤裸裸的在家放肆,但如今也不起劲了。

本身是家中唯女,由于被哥哥弟弟包围着,父母也没因此把我变成“大小姐”一样惯养。
传统的亚洲家庭观念是女生必须得学会打理一切家里的家务。
丈夫在外奔波,妻子在家里顾家、照顾小孩。
被练,被逼着帮忙家里的一切事物,我没说“不”的权利。
一路的内心想法从讨厌转移至心疼妈妈每天为家里操劳让我很自然而然地想帮她减轻负担。
家里仍是男持外,女管内的习惯,但现在世界的进展已是男女平等的阶段。
下一代的家庭观念应该是男女彼此持家及处理家务。

一直都处于独立性个,珍惜与朋友的相处,也当然不喜欢每一次的分离。
他们说:“分离是为了下一次的相聚”,and vice-versa。
我只能说我们只能在未来见面,只是不知道时间和地点。
每一次的飞行、乘搭巴士到某个目的地,我已忘了什么时候不是独行。
心里还是会喜欢大众型的相聚,或某朋友的停留。

觉得自己很适合“独”字,因为我的人生旅程就反映出这词的意思。
享受自己喜欢做的事情,选择自己想挑战的事物,解决自己遇到的问题。
渐渐的我爱上一个人的自由,但很闲自由的宽度。
因为它偶尔会让我变得慵懒,偶尔变得想一直独处,不希望有外人的干扰。
久而久之又是否变得自私了呢?

Merry Christmas and blessed birthday ❤︎ Part 2

Well, I'm just too lucky to have friends that will remember my birthday and celebrate the day for me. One top reason is it's the Christmas Day where it's a holiday. Rephrasing my sentence again, I should thank my mum for bringing me to this world on this special occasion. Birthday and festive celebration continued on Christmas Eve with my friends met since diploma time. They are the crazy and silly diploma gang that do stupid stuff but fun at the same time. They're funny, sometimes, and they are like beasts who are obsessed with food, exercise and of course, pretty ladies.
We had lunch at a place near The Shore, River Quay Dining & Lounge. Lunch hour starts from 12-3pm, the dining place has 50% offer so we went there to try their food out. I ordered this Chicken Burger, and it's quite nice. Other friends ordered the spaghetti, 1/4 chicken, sandwiches... The spaghetti is not worth trying if you wanna fill your stomach full cause the portion is too small. The cakes and desserts are just so-so and can it out if want. They have the cakes half price as well. 
There's a place to play darts, so after eating we just hanged around the darts area playing with the game. It was my first time ever playing darts, thought by my friends and it was fun. I'm kinda like this game cause it's new to me and it needs skills to win the game. I think this game is suitable to play with friends and have some chit-chatting session. That's why they normally have it in lounge. LOL. 

Chicken burger

Cakes and pudding

Well, last time there's a few more diploma friends but they are not here with us anymore.
T.T

I got wishes from old friends back in my hometown. They still remember my birthday, how good it is huh. I purposely do not want to put in on Facebook to let others know cause 1, I don't wanna make myself busy replying all those wishes. 2, I don't like the red button notification appear on my phone and I need to keep on pressing the button in order to get rid of the red notifications. Yeah, I know that's one of the sickness I got. Thanks for all the celebrations and wishes, I'll never forget it. :D


Merry Christmas and blessed birthday ❤︎ Part 1

One fun fact I think it's true is that when you get older, you'll start to look back and miss all the memories that you had. Yeah, that's what I did every end of the year. Christmas time is always a great time to chill and catch up with friends, and I'll get wishes for my birthday. It's a sign of getting one year older. Haha... Well, I still won't admit it cause I'm still young and free. I had a blast this year, for both of the celebrations. Gonna note it down here so that I can look back for future years to come.

I met my fancy and lovely friends at Selangor for a birthday surprise. I was actually cheated and had no idea what was the program on that day, the flow and everything. Am not the person to go to a place without planning. And, with this bunch of friends, it turned out incredibly great. We were just awesome at doing all these surprises. hahaha... But the most important thing I think is making effort to keep up the bonding of our friendship since we are now far apart.

Morning Xyndy and I went to a cafe, Le Pont Boulangerie. An awesome place with superb interior design by a Japanese designer. The food was nice, the environment is good and it's so pretty to take photos. Bought the buns and ordered their breakfast and drinks. The food was not bad, but the matcha milk tea is awesome. I wish I can have it every morning to wake me up. I'm addicted to matcha already. Damn!

This is the matcha drink I'm so in love about. :D 
(Love my grey colour nails!)

The decorations for Christmas Day is just so pretty!



Their dining table, isn't it awesome? 
I asked the waiter where can I get tissue and spoon, he told me it inside the table. LOL




Xyndy told me this is their signature bridge inside the cafe.



We went to MidValley to meet up with Chui Wei. The Christmas decorations there were pretty too! I think the theme is flowers inside the glass house. It'll cost quite expensive though. Went to the Kuroshio Market where there's something like food streets selling a lot of food. Walked around, took photos and our next stop was The Three Little Pigs and the Big Bad Wolf at Bangsar Village. We had our dinner there and gift exchange session. Walking out the building, there's a lot of light bulbs tangling around the branches of the trees. It's so romantic there. Suitable for couples to hang around, get some kissess and propose, maybe. hahaha... We continued our second round of eating desserts at Alexis Bistro & Wine Bar for my birthday celebration. Well, every year is an unforgettable birthday celebration for me cause they are just too special. I know I'm blessed with a bunch of good friends who'll spend their precious time celebrating it with me. ❤︎


Flowers in the glass house, so gorgeous!

Dinner at Three Little Pigs and the Big Bad Wolf

My gift exhange present! Love them all.


With my lovely girls and John was not it cause he helped us to take photos. haha

The tress are so pretty! I would like to see them every night.

Alexis's signature cakes. 

Well... I just notice that I'll probably get the wishlist items after I posted them in Instagram. hahaha... The dreams did come true. Thanks peeps! I got the huge doll, the mousse mask, candles and perfumes with great scents for my birthday presents. Gorwing up elegantly without missing the naiveté in my heart. I'll have them with me throughout the year until next Christmas comes. 

I have blessed days everyday. However, my days become meaningful with great people, sharings and meaningful activities. Hope the friends surround me would stay great and healthy always. Love you guys!