毕业了,大学的朋友们也都踏上了各自的旅程。
以前热热闹闹租的房子,现在也变得空空荡荡。
剩下了我的东西,不见了朋友们的作息声。
终于可以赤裸裸的在家放肆,但如今也不起劲了。

本身是家中唯女,由于被哥哥弟弟包围着,父母也没因此把我变成“大小姐”一样惯养。
传统的亚洲家庭观念是女生必须得学会打理一切家里的家务。
丈夫在外奔波,妻子在家里顾家、照顾小孩。
被练,被逼着帮忙家里的一切事物,我没说“不”的权利。
一路的内心想法从讨厌转移至心疼妈妈每天为家里操劳让我很自然而然地想帮她减轻负担。
家里仍是男持外,女管内的习惯,但现在世界的进展已是男女平等的阶段。
下一代的家庭观念应该是男女彼此持家及处理家务。

一直都处于独立性个,珍惜与朋友的相处,也当然不喜欢每一次的分离。
他们说:“分离是为了下一次的相聚”,and vice-versa。
我只能说我们只能在未来见面,只是不知道时间和地点。
每一次的飞行、乘搭巴士到某个目的地,我已忘了什么时候不是独行。
心里还是会喜欢大众型的相聚,或某朋友的停留。

觉得自己很适合“独”字,因为我的人生旅程就反映出这词的意思。
享受自己喜欢做的事情,选择自己想挑战的事物,解决自己遇到的问题。
渐渐的我爱上一个人的自由,但很闲自由的宽度。
因为它偶尔会让我变得慵懒,偶尔变得想一直独处,不希望有外人的干扰。
久而久之又是否变得自私了呢?

Merry Christmas and blessed birthday ❤︎ Part 2

Well, I'm just too lucky to have friends that will remember my birthday and celebrate the day for me. One top reason is it's the Christmas Day where it's a holiday. Rephrasing my sentence again, I should thank my mum for bringing me to this world on this special occasion. Birthday and festive celebration continued on Christmas Eve with my friends met since diploma time. They are the crazy and silly diploma gang that do stupid stuff but fun at the same time. They're funny, sometimes, and they are like beasts who are obsessed with food, exercise and of course, pretty ladies.
We had lunch at a place near The Shore, River Quay Dining & Lounge. Lunch hour starts from 12-3pm, the dining place has 50% offer so we went there to try their food out. I ordered this Chicken Burger, and it's quite nice. Other friends ordered the spaghetti, 1/4 chicken, sandwiches... The spaghetti is not worth trying if you wanna fill your stomach full cause the portion is too small. The cakes and desserts are just so-so and can it out if want. They have the cakes half price as well. 
There's a place to play darts, so after eating we just hanged around the darts area playing with the game. It was my first time ever playing darts, thought by my friends and it was fun. I'm kinda like this game cause it's new to me and it needs skills to win the game. I think this game is suitable to play with friends and have some chit-chatting session. That's why they normally have it in lounge. LOL. 

Chicken burger

Cakes and pudding

Well, last time there's a few more diploma friends but they are not here with us anymore.
T.T

I got wishes from old friends back in my hometown. They still remember my birthday, how good it is huh. I purposely do not want to put in on Facebook to let others know cause 1, I don't wanna make myself busy replying all those wishes. 2, I don't like the red button notification appear on my phone and I need to keep on pressing the button in order to get rid of the red notifications. Yeah, I know that's one of the sickness I got. Thanks for all the celebrations and wishes, I'll never forget it. :D


Merry Christmas and blessed birthday ❤︎ Part 1

One fun fact I think it's true is that when you get older, you'll start to look back and miss all the memories that you had. Yeah, that's what I did every end of the year. Christmas time is always a great time to chill and catch up with friends, and I'll get wishes for my birthday. It's a sign of getting one year older. Haha... Well, I still won't admit it cause I'm still young and free. I had a blast this year, for both of the celebrations. Gonna note it down here so that I can look back for future years to come.

I met my fancy and lovely friends at Selangor for a birthday surprise. I was actually cheated and had no idea what was the program on that day, the flow and everything. Am not the person to go to a place without planning. And, with this bunch of friends, it turned out incredibly great. We were just awesome at doing all these surprises. hahaha... But the most important thing I think is making effort to keep up the bonding of our friendship since we are now far apart.

Morning Xyndy and I went to a cafe, Le Pont Boulangerie. An awesome place with superb interior design by a Japanese designer. The food was nice, the environment is good and it's so pretty to take photos. Bought the buns and ordered their breakfast and drinks. The food was not bad, but the matcha milk tea is awesome. I wish I can have it every morning to wake me up. I'm addicted to matcha already. Damn!

This is the matcha drink I'm so in love about. :D 
(Love my grey colour nails!)

The decorations for Christmas Day is just so pretty!



Their dining table, isn't it awesome? 
I asked the waiter where can I get tissue and spoon, he told me it inside the table. LOL




Xyndy told me this is their signature bridge inside the cafe.



We went to MidValley to meet up with Chui Wei. The Christmas decorations there were pretty too! I think the theme is flowers inside the glass house. It'll cost quite expensive though. Went to the Kuroshio Market where there's something like food streets selling a lot of food. Walked around, took photos and our next stop was The Three Little Pigs and the Big Bad Wolf at Bangsar Village. We had our dinner there and gift exchange session. Walking out the building, there's a lot of light bulbs tangling around the branches of the trees. It's so romantic there. Suitable for couples to hang around, get some kissess and propose, maybe. hahaha... We continued our second round of eating desserts at Alexis Bistro & Wine Bar for my birthday celebration. Well, every year is an unforgettable birthday celebration for me cause they are just too special. I know I'm blessed with a bunch of good friends who'll spend their precious time celebrating it with me. ❤︎


Flowers in the glass house, so gorgeous!

Dinner at Three Little Pigs and the Big Bad Wolf

My gift exhange present! Love them all.


With my lovely girls and John was not it cause he helped us to take photos. haha

The tress are so pretty! I would like to see them every night.

Alexis's signature cakes. 

Well... I just notice that I'll probably get the wishlist items after I posted them in Instagram. hahaha... The dreams did come true. Thanks peeps! I got the huge doll, the mousse mask, candles and perfumes with great scents for my birthday presents. Gorwing up elegantly without missing the naiveté in my heart. I'll have them with me throughout the year until next Christmas comes. 

I have blessed days everyday. However, my days become meaningful with great people, sharings and meaningful activities. Hope the friends surround me would stay great and healthy always. Love you guys! 

年輪說

最近愛上了這首歌。
Kevin老師說,
音樂在普通時候聽的時候是旋律;
難過時後聽的是歌詞。 
但這首歌每次聽,以上兩者都非常喜歡。
其中的原因之一,作詞人是我崇拜的吳青峰。 ❤︎

楊丞琳的[年輪說]:
時間是我們最巨大的敵人
在時間面前 我們只能卑微的獻出一切



年輪說 詞:吳青峰/曲:鄭宇界 

看 回憶這把刀 
切開我身體 研究我的風雨 
這圈是我 那圈是你 開過心的開心
看 成長的痕跡 
包裹我生命 篆刻我的章印
計算著我 計算著你 過不去的過去

一是嬰兒哭啼 二是學遊戲
三是青春物語 四是碰巧遇見你
了解這個你 沉迷這個你
時間暫停 再繼續

十是寂寞夜裡 百是懷了疑
千是掙扎夢醒 萬是鐵心離開你
經歷這個你 活成這個我 細數自己 

聽 遠方的信號
痛過的美麗 仍將冉冉升起
想起的我 想起了你 難跨過的難過
聽 發出的警告
餘燼的煙蒂 仍將燃燒思念
燒毀了我 燒毀了你 未到來的未來

人性的丑陋


有钱什么都能,但一旦没钱就万万不能。
其实生活了那么久,“钱”这个字的确是敏感话题。
身边会有不少的人是归类为“势利眼”组别。
看到某某某拥有不错的家庭环境就会跟他变得要好。
这是人低级的本性。
我非常厌恨这一点。

看见了人世的尘埃,看穿了人性的丑陋。
你会提醒自己切莫成为他们的一份子。
因为活在这个世界上,
还有很多有意义的任务可以完成。





The happiness and greatness, the rank and station, the pleasure and peace, of an individual have never consisted in his personal wealth, but rather in his excellent character, his high resolve, the breadth of his learning and his ability to solve difficult problems.

伴侶


單身了許久,身旁有位親密的伴侶陪伴是一種渴望。
原因有很多。
想學有了另一半的存在該怎麼相處。
或許時間的分配會有所改變。
待人處事的形式,活動量暴增,嘗試更多不同的東西。
當然,有些事畢竟要有人陪伴才有膽量去嘗試。
還有溝通方式,解決問題,磋商等等的。

我只能說當一個人生活在同一個圈子裡,同一個城市,
將自己提升到一定的程度以後,他一定會再去尋找另一階層的突破。
或許不是每一個人都會這樣,不過至少我是這麼樣的一個人。
還真羨慕身邊的朋友有這不同的體驗及變化。
當身旁被丘比特派來即將一起相處的伴侶,能一起成長的是件好事。
因為自己身上千萬種可能性,通過別人才能被激發。
此外,伴侶會給予彼此不同的能量。
這包括正與負。
只能看自己選的伴侶會是怎麼樣的人。

每個人都有這自己的長處。
但這並不代表全部人都會欣賞你的好,包括伴侶。
與家人朋友的相處固然也會不一樣。
也好奇已提煉好的自己會變成什麼形狀。
期待與我一起摸索未知世界的人,
以及經過一些磨練以後,另一面更好的自己。

不缺


有人曾问过我,说你有要什么东西吗?
我想了想,其实基本需求都已经有了。
剩下的东西,可有可无。
出了饮食以外的开销,其他的东西都无需添加。
最新的某某东西,最流行的什么什么,其实我也没去追那潮流。
反而会自己讨厌别人喜欢的那潮流物。
是不是人长大了就会这么样了呢?
我只觉得只要是适合自己风格的就可以了。
有或没有也无所谓。
也庆幸的是我在物质方面什么都不缺。
每天在舒适的枕头上入眠,每天从温暖的被窝里苏醒。
偶尔还有星星布娃和OKcat的陪伴。
简单的生活才是最幸福的。
但要体验简单生活,并不是每个人都能那么容易的做到。

人赤裸裸地来到这个世界,也会一手空着离去。
能带走的出了能记在脑子里的东西以外,还能带的就是我们所拥有的美德。

Melaka Freeport Outlet @ A' Famosa

大家久违了。这段实习期间让我变成了一个老人,确确实实的懒了很多。平时的活儿还在干,但部落格更新就停了蛮久的。哈哈。而这篇文章实在好多个星期以后才写上去的。大家,不好意思啦。呵呵。

那一次我们决定去了马六甲的这间outlet去买东西。Ruhi说她有东西要买,我没去过,她父母也闲着没事干,约上了我的好友芯怡就一块儿去了。车程通过tol的道路花了大概半个小时,我们就到了。当时也是榴莲旺盛的时刻,路边看到的便是游客们或当地人的蜂拥围绕。有什么榴莲Buffet RM30,不同品种的榴莲牌子及价钱等等。画面真的很夸张。不瞒你说,榴莲真是一个奇怪的水果。它能一口选人吃它(接受它独特的味道),就在那一线之间,喜欢就是喜欢,不喜欢就是不能接受。喜欢吃榴莲是好,但大家不能忍受的也就是吃了它之后从嘴里“喷”出来的味道。确实是让人难受,我自己也受不了。

到达了目的地,看到的是一座长长的建筑物,还真好奇里面的构造是怎么样的。我们来回走了一圈,也有不少的收获。我的评语是这商场所有的牌子有热门的,也有冷门的。当然,冷门的顾客也没那么多。至于货物嘛也就还好,热门的牌子比如Nike, Clarks, Li Ning 商品就依然是标准的,价钱也算便宜。如果你们有逛过位于Sepang的Mitsui Outlet,我会比较喜欢那里的环境多一些。不过不同的商场,买的货物也都不一样。因此,就看你们是否有看中自己喜欢或实用的东西啦。
在车上的合作。领航员(co-driver)叔叔不懂跑哪去了。

一个皇后带着两位公主,小妹只是宫女。哈哈哈哈

当天的阳光抚媚,拍照一级棒!

猜猜谁是一家人?(看眼睛就揭晓了谜底)

我们的全家福!
干妈只生一个女儿(右二),现在多出两个,目前的状况已明显地显示她是开心得不亦乐乎的。哈哈。
一家三女儿的家庭,想到都恐怖。

卖橙及卖菜的合影。

众所周知,大家都来与这风车拍照。仅此而已。哈哈

NG 独照 (我个人照摆pose真的很失败)

这张照片有外国情景的feel,只是建筑物太新,说的伤人点就是有点假。
*得罪到某人的话,小妹在此先赔罪啦。

我买了Hush Puppies的浴巾及一件T恤。
价钱是便宜的,我赚到了。
不,是我捞到了一笔。
不,是我捡到了。

在店里逍遥自在地大吃大喝,很厉害啊我们!
女生在逛街,只有男的对逛街没什么极大兴趣。
他们的兴趣就只有吃吃吃。
那食物是叔叔买的。
逛到饿了就有食物吃也蛮幸福的。

走着走着看到很奇怪,为什么会有人用CHAI这个字眼为商城命名。
它不适合也听不顺耳。真奇怪。

你们看看这叔叔...

再看看这阿姨。他们有什么共同点?

全部人都在玩snapchat的自拍变脸游戏。真受不了啊。

吃了叔叔买的小吃,其实我们也没有很饿。所以决定了到PapaRich那里吃几样可以一起分享的食物。在甜点上我点了这个玉蜀黍的冰饮,不错是不错,可是太甜了。其他人就点了两碗的cendol。Cendol是张家一家人的最爱,去到哪都是必点的甜点。

Nasi goreng kampung + ayam goreng
如此一碟的炒饭,在这里吃还的就是比一般马来店的价钱高很多。
虽然不是我付钱,但还是觉得不值。

披萨是不错吃,但总面积还真的是很小。

吃饱后皇后要公主们陪她坐这个Merry-Go-Round。
叫我玩这个?我才不要叻。
就算是要返老还童,我也不会要玩这个好吗。

无意间看到几位不是本地人的游客与这阿拉丁神灯的巨人拍照。
看到他们真搞笑,我也就偷拍他们的其中一位男生。哈哈哈
看来有在练肌肉的男生都会摆这个姿势啊。

我在Nike鞋店里买了一双球鞋。
是这位男生介绍的。
Nike Zoom Pegasus 32.
他说这双跑步鞋很轻盈。由于是专攻跑步的,所以鞋子底部会偏厚。
跟他聊了很久,也聊了很多。
因为他对球鞋的知识很深,而且曾是篮球健将。
他说他在十六岁就考到了篮球裁判执照,也曾到过东马做裁判。
现在目前是Nike店的球鞋顾问,还有健身教练。
他还在我试球鞋时帮我调好鞋带,真的是很夸张。
我只能说他的服务贴心又周到。

听了他的介绍,买了这双跑步鞋。
啊,真开心!

卖橙的也买了她看中的包包。
阿姨帮她的包包在付钱前做最后的审查。

大家开开心心地放回城堡。
看她们怎么没拖着胜利品回家,其实叔叔早已帮她们放上车去了。
没办法,皇后及公主们的命就是不一样。
她们有这种特权。小妹也只是个帮忙拍照的宫女a.k.a狗仔。

最后是我的个人自拍啦。
阳光不错啊!
*注:全部照片都没修过图的哟!
掰~