谢忱

12:13 AM fOnG LiNg 0 Comments


知道谢忱是什么意思吗?
此词与感谢相近。
怀有这颗心及思想的人必定会感觉世界上在他身边所发生的一切一点都很奇妙。
不懂你们是否有类似的感觉,但我本人是这么认为。
很多很多的问题在我脑海里旋转着,想想这事情该怎么解决。
想到一半有另一件事情要做,就暂时把想着的事情搁着。怎知下一秒刚刚在脑海里盘旋的事情就被别人提出,一起解决或他们帮我解决了。

举例1:想去一个地方解决某些事情。不知道谁会有去那个地方的时候,就有朋友传简讯来说是否要到哪哪去,而那正是我想要去的地方。

举例2:与朋友要出去吃东西。大家都会说你选啦你选地方吃。但我通常是不会提议,因为其他人的所有提议我几乎都会接受。更何况我是跟随者,那里好意思说我要吃这个那个的。就有好多次有想吃的东西,但那也只是念头罢了。心里想着说好想吃这个某某食物哦,但朋友问要吃什么嘴巴却说“你选啦,什么都可以”。结果他说的食物往往就是我想吃的,所以没说出来的念头也顺便跟着实现了。

举例3: 另一个很奇妙的事情是金钱上的问题。有好几次必须买某某东西,但奖学金还没得到。心里想着该怎么省吃省用的时候,爸爸就跳出来解决了这事情。重点是不常跟哥哥聊天的他也跳出来问我是否够钱用。真的是有吓到我好几下。除了第一年刚到西马像山八老看到什么东西就狂买,天高地厚不懂事情的年纪跟爸爸说钱不够用以外,等到弟弟中五前说要受高等教育的念头我就开始想着要怎么帮爸爸省钱,不想我成为他很大的负担,就已经开始想说有哪些办法可使。我弟弟就从没想到这回事。我就懂他是那种被宠的样。老幺难道就这么样吗?我一直在他脑里灌输说你自己要争气,把书读好来以后出国拿奖学金继续读比较好。回家不要像少爷那样什么家务事情都没帮上等等的。他却对我说他没像我有这种想法他也不知道为什么。还问我以后我工作了是否要供他出国留学的学费。跟他交换了某些条件后他却改变想法说还是投靠爸爸比较好。真的是让我翻白眼。

举例4:一心想买某某化妆品但因价钱太昂贵没买着,生日礼物朋友就将它送给我了。

举例5:有意愿要买吉他,遇到友善的学姐也同时会载其他学妹去乐器店,结果就把吉他买下了。

举例6:打印机除了问题,将它送去维修店修理了好几天。正想着它是否还在保固期可以免费维修啊,还是得掏钱维修的时候,维修人员就打了电话跟我说他免费帮我换了新的一台,而且是可以无线上网打印的。我真的是太幸运了!

还有之前很多很多的例子。
我相信其实我们身边都发生过许多这些微妙的事情,(这包括我们身边出现的人,事物等)只是有时候没觉得是一回事罢了。
如果我们心中都一直保持着这种谢忱的心态去面对生活的每一天,相信我们会以更好的心情及眼光去对待及面对事情。这样岂不是很好吗? :D

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我变异常了

9:01 PM fOnG LiNg 0 Comments


肚子消化不良,我怀疑我有轻微的食物中毒。
早上就没胃口。想吐,但我的意识却阻止我这么做。
身体不舒服,心情也就比平常冷酷。
没心情说风凉话或客套话什么的。
在车上就沉默着,没有什么好议论的。
看着车窗外朦胧的景色,看到前车four wheel drive的老车不断喷射黑烟,心里不爽。
所有的不爽却没换成任何的言语从嘴巴投诉,就只是在心里痛骂。
林北到了学校却没上课,我依旧沉默着。
不向他索取原因,酷酷地往另一个方向走了。
在班上看着老师不耐烦地解释着数学题该怎么做。
坐在我隔壁的老板及大眼看人但说话一直停顿的朋友(Amway老板)有疑问却不敢向老师发出提问真的是一直惹来我鄙视的眼光。
都变成老板了怎么胆量还那么小啊?最后还要我帮他们问。
如果我鄙视及不屑的眼神可以对他们的肉体造成伤害,想必他们现在已经遍体鳞伤了。
没说话时可以观察到更多事物。
我看见了一位女生朋友一直往我方向的地板看。
在我好奇之下就问了其原因。
原来是看我脚的尺寸超大。
感觉是Birkenstock的鞋子会让我脚看起来更大。
但我的脚板本来就是超大型的,笑笑跟她说“是咯”也就走人了。
事实就是如此还能怎么狡辩呢?
跟一位马来同胞走到了PPS, 坐在隐秘的学生宅室里打发时间,却被她朋友的一通电话,
把自己像被落单似的在那房里上演了个人solo宅法。
Solo宅法打发时间的方式就是上网。
与我的电脑英雄聊天得知他的头很重需要睡在一个很厚的枕头上。
就连我将他的生日礼物躲放在他的枕头底下他任然能感觉不到枕头下有东西,
垫着礼物睡得熟透。
在这里我真的是想大声为Akemi枕头鼓掌鼓掌。
可见那枕头是如此的厚,舒服及比别的牌子厉害很多。
放学回家跑了好几次的茅厕。
闲,真的好闲。
上了这么多次的茅厕肚子还不满意,到底是想怎样啦?
午餐没胃口吃,晚餐也一样。
嗅到朋友们煮得那么的香,也竟然没有想偷吃的冲动。
我为什么会变到如此下场?
旁晚没出去运动,我的朋友都觉得我很奇怪为什么到了运动时间我还在家里。
没胃口吃晚餐也惹来她们的闲言闲语。
哇,一天不正常原来是那么的令人不可思议是吗?
我自己也没话说所以才到这里来宣布我今天是很不正常。
听了这首吉他曲子我更忧郁了。
请大家一起欣赏。

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Things to do before settling down

10:30 AM fOnG LiNg 0 Comments

I watched a video on Facebook about these 27 things to do before settling down.
Usually this kind of .... things to do bla bla bla .... is girls who will try to see and try it out, but actually, guys can do it too!

So, here is the video and the list of things to do before settling down.

1. Travel with your BFFs.
2. Learn to cook.
3. Be financially independent.
4. Face one of your biggest fear.
5. Live alone.
6. Accomplish a goal.
7. Find your drink of choice.
8. Make the first move.
9. Challenge yourself.
10. Take a road trip.
11. Try a nice restaurant by yourself.
12. Live somewhere else.
13. Learn to drive manual.
14. Find a new show and watch it all in a weekend.
15. Get fit.
16. Build something with your hand.
17. Stay up until the sunrise.
18. See your favourite artist live.
19. Make a list of books to read and then read them all.
20. Learn to fight.
21. Volunteer.
22. Try a new hobby.
23. Apply for your dream job.
24. Keep a journal.
25. Have a long conversation with a stranger.
26. Do something crazy and spontaneous.
27. Get to know yourself.

Okay, great. There's some I've done it, like travel with BFFs, learn to cook, live alone(it's lonely sometimes but somehow I enjoy it now cause I can do whatever I want like nobody's home :D), drink of choice (fruit juices, green tea, plain water), trying nice restaurant by yourself (I did that whenever I'm at the airport. Does that consider as one of it too?), learn to drive manual (Yeah, I did that with Limbeh's, my course mate's car), getting it all the time, am volunteering for my Bahai activities (teaching children classes, animating junior youth group), am keeping a journal about my crazy thoughts (hahaha), had a long conversation with stranger who sat beside me during my flights and I found it tiring sometimes. But there are some haven't done and am thinking of what activities should be done for that particular list. hahahaha... I'm going to write the things I wanna do here before I forget. Maybe you guys can refer some of the activities that you guys you like to do.

  • Be financially independent --> Except the scholarship that I'm getting, I think I have to work first. 
  • Face my biggest fear --> Jumping into the pool from higher place, touching snake.
  • Accomplish a goal --> Save up to RM4000 before going to Taiwan. 
  • Make the first move --> Taking to handsomes that I don't know. 
  • Challenge yourself --> Don't anything that is over the limit, fighting the greed feeling of me. 
  • Take a road trip --> (Dunno where to go yet)
  • Live somewhere else --> Am going to live at Singapore, Korea, Japan, Melbourne or Toronto. 
  • New show --> (Haven't find one yet)
  • Build something with your hand --> Handmade soap, cupboard, storage box
  • Stay up until the sunrise --> OMG... This is killing me! I think I can't do this. 
  • Seeing artist live --> MayDay, SodaGreen, 2PM, The Script, Maroon Five, Jayesslee... It'll be good if there's friends who would like to join me. :D
  • List of books to read --> I already have books with me but I haven't read them up.
  • Learn to fight --> (Fight what? Cockroaches?)
  • Try a new hobby --> (I really don't know what hobby to try out, any suggestions?)
  • Apply your dream job. --> Yeah, will find one someday. 
  • Do something crazy and spontaneous --> (I can't think of one at the moment)heheh
So, what's your list?
Start to write it down and give it a try.
Have a great time doing with it.
Cheers. :D

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